Is It Love or Is It Just Familiar Pain?
Trauma feels like love when pain is the only language your heart understands.You think you’ve found “your person,” but what you’ve really found is a familiar ache wrapped in someone else’s skin. The Pull of Toxic Comfort Humans crave the familiar, even if the familiar is what hurt them. That is why people raised in …...
When Love Feels Like War: Toxic Attachment Patterns
Toxic attachment patterns can make you feel like you’re fighting for love instead of living in it. You tell yourself this is passion, intensity, or soul connection — but deep down, it’s chaos dressed up as romance. Every text feels like a test. Every silence feels like a punishment. You’re not in love. You’re in …...
Why You Miss the Person Who Broke You?
If you’re wondering why you still miss someone who caused you pain, you’re not alone. A lot of people wrestle with this quiet ache. It doesn’t make sense on the surface. Why would your heart hold on to someone who broke it? The answer isn’t simple, but it’s very human. Whether it’s a trauma bond,...
