You Don’t Want Closure, You Want Validation
Seeking validation from ex is not about closure. You want proof you mattered, an admission that you were not replaceable, a moment where they confirm your worth. That hunger keeps you alive in the present moment of their life, even though they are not in yours. You say you want closure because it sounds clean …...
The Devil’s Playbook: How Guilt Keeps You Trapped
You don’t need chains to stay stuck. Sometimes all it takes is guilt — that quiet, heavy feeling in your chest that tells you leaving makes you the bad person. The problem is, guilt doesn’t just come from what you did. It comes from what they made you believe was your responsibility. And before you …...
