Was It Love?

Sometimes what felt like love was just survival. Sometimes it was chaos that looked like passion. Sometimes it was pain that you convinced yourself meant care. This space is where we talk about those relationships — the ones that left you confused, addicted, and doubting your own judgment. The hardest part isn’t letting go. It’s realizing it was never love in the first place.

Was It Love?, Psychology

Was It Love, or Did the Dark Psychology of Fragrance Manipulate Your Heart?

The dark psychology of fragrance becomes terrifying when you realize someone’s scent stayed with you longer than their love ever did. Their presence lingers in your mind, your clothes, your bed, your memories, your breath. You smell something familiar, and suddenly your heart reacts before your logic can catch up. You think you miss...

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Was It Love?

Is It Love or Is It Just Familiar Pain?

Trauma feels like love when pain is the only language your heart understands.You think you’ve found “your person,” but what you’ve really found is a familiar ache wrapped in someone else’s skin. The Pull of Toxic Comfort Humans crave the familiar, even if the familiar is what hurt them. That is why people raised in …...

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Was It Love?

When Love Feels Like War: Toxic Attachment Patterns

Toxic attachment patterns can make you feel like you’re fighting for love instead of living in it. You tell yourself this is passion, intensity, or soul connection — but deep down, it’s chaos dressed up as romance. Every text feels like a test. Every silence feels like a punishment. You’re not in love. You’re in …...

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Was It Love?

Why You Miss the Person Who Broke You?

If you’re wondering why you still miss someone who caused you pain, you’re not alone. A lot of people wrestle with this quiet ache. It doesn’t make sense on the surface. Why would your heart hold on to someone who broke it? The answer isn’t simple, but it’s very human. Whether it’s a trauma bond,...

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Was It Love?

Was It Love or Just Emotional Addiction?

Emotional addiction in relationships is a silent poison. It creeps in disguised as love, fooling your heart and mind until you’re hooked; chasing highs and nursing wounds. You think it’s love, but beneath the surface, it’s a craving, a trap, a toxic cycle that swallows your identity. You don’t just want love. You’re desperate...

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